With an increase of friendships and network. I’ve realized that a lot of people I know, don’t necessary like each other. It’s been a difficult challenge, when people I know or meet have issues with someone I consider a friend.
I’m learning at the risk of my reputation by association, I will be: misunderstood, discredited, and/or criticized. But, in all this, I have an even greater risk, not being a loyal friend to many.
I’ve decided and chosen, that I will be a loyal friend at the risk of my reputation. Regardless of what one friendship can do to increase or decrease my influence with others. At the end of the day, I want my friends to know I’m here for them regardless of what others may think.
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Well said! I have also found that often times there is a misunderstanding that has created the conflict or dislike amongst your friends. You as a mutual friend can give a fresh perspective and can sometimes help mend those relationships.
I get into these situations too and so respect your decision to be loyal! It’s a lot easier to just dump friends and move on when you’re constantly meeting new people. You better not dump us!!!